unless we are sub/dom roll-playing and it’s agreed that he can mess with me, meaning the shit better turn me on too or fuck off. otherwise the only way a man can get away with forcing me down on him is by overpowering me purposefully. . women with little or no self-esteem will often see giving a man head as an obligatory thing. something she has to do. no one has to do dick. obligatory sex is sex work. and if that’s the case i better get paid.
personally, men who let me tie them up for endless torturing are the men worth knowing and giving head to ………… for this week anyway.